HGTV stars Ben and Erin Napier know the keys to a happy marriage and are sharing their secrets with the world. The two revealed their love languages and what they love most about each other.
Couple Goals: Ben & Erin Napier’s Love Languages Revealed
During a March 2025 interview with People, the Napiers shared some of the details of their loving 21-year relationship. The couple dished on what each other’s love languages are and, not surprisingly, there’s a whole lot of quality time and acts of service in the mix.
Ben noted, “I think Erin’s love language is quality time. We just like being together.”
According to Erin, Ben puts a lot of effort into pleasing others. “He always thinks about what would just delight me and the girls [their children Helen and Mae].” Ben even makes everyday things special. “Everything has to be an experience,” Erin shared.
“You want everyone to have a good time and feel special,” she said to her husband. “If they are in your presence, you want them to feel special and good. That’s your love language.”
Erin Chooses 1 Word to Describe Her Relationship With Ben
The couple also dished on what they love about each other. “After all these years, the thing that I love most about you is your imagination,” Ben said to Erin.
She returned the exchange, saying, “After all these years, the thing that I love most about you is your generosity.”
When asked the one word to describe their relationship, Erin didn’t hesitate to pick the word “safe.”
“I have a word, I think it every day, all the time. Every night when I lay down beside you … Safe,” she said.
Ben noted, “I was going to say supported.”
Erin explained, “He would never break my heart, he would never do anything to upset me or hurt me … safe.”
On March 19, Erin took to Instagram to share her and Ben’s Us Weekly magazine cover. She explained in the caption: “We get a lot of questions about our marriage because we work together. How we get along, find family time, keep the romance alive and all that … “
She continued, “We did a lot of talking for this interview and we answered all those questions, but I think the best way to find happiness in your marriage is to serve one another. Never stop talking. Pray together. Show each other so much grace. Be on the same team.”
The HGTV star added, “We only have 20 years of practice, and we are not experts, but it’s worked for us every time.”
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HGTV’s Ben & Erin Napier Reveal Their Love Languages